I am continuing to share my 21-day challenge “Being Unstoppable and Getting Unstuck “. I highly recommend you do the challenge if you want to build muscle to be unstoppable. I will be running it on the 1st day of every month for 21 days.
On the third and fourth days, I get you to start making powerful requests of others. I invite you to make requests and get out of your comfort zone. Nowhere do I tell you to be attached to the outcome. When you have that ability to make requests of others with no attachment to the outcome you start building a habitual pattern that will support you in being unstoppable. When you add what are you committed to and then start making requests, (no) will not stop you from asking another, then another. No doesn’t mean anything except, no for right now.
What has people be effective and unstoppable is their ability to make powerful requests of others and create a team of people around them. When we treat all people as big people capable and able, trusting they can decide for themselves, that is powerful. When we make requests of others we give them an opportunity to contribute or not at that moment. All people want to contribute to one another. We just have to give them an opportunity.
I assert that what stops us frequently in life is we don’t live our lives from our commitments. We live our life from our thoughts and feelings. Rarely do we commit. I have seen people committing to something and as soon as it’s uncomfortable they stop. They break their word and start living from their thoughts and feelings.
Most of our suffering is because we keep our lives small enough to manage and view our commitments as pie in the sky dreams versus goals to be achieved.
This is a quote from Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too.
All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in ones favour all manner of unforeseen incidents meetings and material assistance which no man could have dreamed would have come his way.
Whatever you can do or dream you can begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now”
I assert we have hidden commitments we don’t realize. We take actions (I can’t emphasize this enough) from what we are committed to, whether conscious or unconscious. If you want to know what you are committed to in a particular area, look at your actions. Listen to the rest of the podcasts to get more examples.
Go for it! I want on my gravestone she burned out instead of rusted out! What do you want them to say about you?
Ask yourself are your actions and speaking in alignment with what you are committed to? Look at what are the habitual patterns that have that commitment thwarted? Are you willing to take responsibility for when it doesn’t go the way you want or the way you expected and clean up your part? Are you willing to let go of Expectations of yourself and others? What are you not being truthful about to yourself and others?
Our thoughts can be like a junk drawer-we need to take inventory and get rid of what is not useful! (wendy b)
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Wendy B
I support women when facing adversity to Reclaim Their Power bringing them more clarity, confidence, and joy. Also, I share my 40 years of experience of being a successful entrepreneur while raising two children who are now adults.
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Wendy Bergen
International renowned Transformational Solution Coach, Author
Motivational Speaker, podcaster: Thriving at Sixty
Certified Reclaim Your Power (RYP) Workshop, Leader
Transformational Coach transforming your perception of yourself and others one conversation at a time.
Best selling Author of “Getting Unstuck,” 30 Ways to turn YOUR limiting barriers into clarity, freedom and power
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